Thursday, February 25, 2010

This Is What It Feels Like by FFH

Heard this song again on the radio. Right now God is speaking so much through music.
This cannot describe my life/road more...here are the lyrics
So this is what if feels like to walk the wilderness
and this is what if feels like to come undone
So this is what if feels like to loose my confidence unsure of anything or anyone
So this is what if feels like to walk the desert sand and this is what if feels like to hear my name and to be scared to death cause I'm all alone but feel love and peace just the same
And this may not be the road I would choose for me but it still feels right somehow
And I have never felt you as close to me as I do right now
So this is what if feels like to be led
So this is what if feels like to have it fall apart to be totally unglued
and find out if I accept my brokenness I get more of me, I get all of you
If this is what if feels like to be on shaky ground Careful of every step I take
Realizing as I stop to look around I look around and see everything a different way
and this may not be the road I would choose for me but it still feels right somehow
cause I have never felt you as close to me as I do right now
So this is what if feels like to be led
and this is what if feels like to be led
So this is what if feels like to just walk away from everything I thought kept me safe
to depend just on you for every meal and find it's better this way oh it's better this way
And this may not be the road I would choose for me but it still feels right somehow
And I have never felt you as close to me as I do right now like i do right now
And this may not be the road I would choose for me but it still feels right somehow
And I have never felt you as close to me as I do right now
And this is what if feels like to be led
And this is what if feels like to be led
And this is what if feels like

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Why the name Bethesda?

I thought it was a strange name for a healing workshop until they explained it this way

John 5:

2Now there is in Jerusalem by the Sheep Gate a pool, in Aramaic called Bethesda, which has five roofed colonnades. 3In these lay a multitude of invalids—blind, lame, and paralyzed.5One man was there who had been an invalid for thirty-eight years. 6When Jesus saw him lying there and knew that he had already been there a long time, he said to him, "Do you want to be healed?" 7The sick man answered him, "Sir, I have no one to put me into the pool when the water is stirred up, and while I am going another steps down before me." 8Jesus said to him, "Get up, take up your bed, and walk." 9And at once the man was healed, and he took up his bed and walked.

Don't miss the point. Jesus asked the man, "Do you want to be healed?" Of course the man made excuses that he couldn't. How many excuses have we made? How many have I made. The man was paralyzed and Jesus healed him.

Suzanne mentioned this morning that someone told her that there are people in town who think that you can't get over sexual addictions, that our counselor was one of the few that believe you can. My answer to that is that Jesus can heal a paralyzed man, I think he can help me...the question here is, "Do I want to be healed?" ..............more than you will ever know! 4 months of sobriety and already feel the healing beginning....

C

Monday, February 22, 2010

Working my Program...

Last week I did not. My husband and I got into a big fight on Monday and for the rest of the week I went in and out (mostly in) with my anger. It was a HORRIBLE week for me. I had no peace, I was in self will run riot for sure. I did not read, hardly prayed and white knuckled my anger and wrestled with God. Friday it lifted. God showed me through my four year old just how miserable I was. She is a very perceptive child and said "Mommy you are always tired bc you are miserable." Very humbling and it shook me to my core. God used her to make me surrender. I was able to thank her for her honesty, tell her how true that was and smart she was, apologize, and surrender my husband and my anger before God. We had a wonderful day and weekend.
I woke up in the wee hours of this morning, burning inside with anger. Sometimes I wake up and think "it is not true, it was a bad dream". Then reality hits. So this morning I decided I cannot do this. I cannot will myself of anger. I have got to work my program just as I did with the alcohol. So today I am. I want peace today and God's will, not mine. God spoke to me as I was making coffee to read my Bible. I opened it to Ezekiel 36 and felt God whispering for me to read- it was about God promising physical restoration along with spiritual for the land of Israel- He never fails to show me His promises when I am willing. So this verse is my prayer for the week.
Ezekiel 36:26
26A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh.

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

We Live In Hope

My husband read to me Psalm 143 and wept. He read it to our Community Group, who we just shared our story with and wept. I live in hope because it is all I have and it is what God calls us to do. His hand is in my story, in our story. Even as we were both in our mother's womb HE KNEW... HE KNEW the pain and the destruction both of our addictions would leave on each other and others. HE KNEW that we would walk this long, winding road of recovery, together. HE KNEW we would both get so desperate and hit our "bottoms" within 1 month of each other. HE KNEW that we would have others there to come along and walk with us. HE KNEW the tears that would be shed and the unbearable hurt. HE KNEW all of it, good and bad, and HE allowed it all to happen. HE PROMISES to prosper and not harm us and HE PROMISES to give us a hope and a future and I am resting and trusting in that. Today I am in living in hope. Tomorrow my husband is off to Bethesda, be praying for him and healing to continue.